"You can pour your heart out to someone. It won’t help though. If it’s over text, they’ll just take a day to say anything to you, if anything at all. If it’s on the phone, they’ll excuse themselves from the conversation. If it’s in person, at least you can slap them across the face when they say the same thing you could have gotten from anyone else. No sincerity. No sympathy. Just dry words. “I’m sorry that happened.” “It’ll get better.” And my personal favorite is when they just say “Sorry.” and begin to talk of themselves.
You can’t tell anyone anything, dear."